Afterwards

‘I wasn’t elated or anything like that. I think it had all been too much like hard work to feel much after.’ 

‘I was relieved. I was delighted about the baby, but I was more relieved than anything – that it was over, and we’d come through, and everything was fine’. (A father)

If you’ve had a deep tear or an episiotomy, it will be sewn up. If you have had an epidural you will not feel this. Otherwise you should be offered a local anaesthetic injection. If it is sore during this repair, then say so; it is the only way that the midwife or doctor will know that they are hurting you. Small tears and grazes are often left to heal without stitches because they frequently heal better this way.

Your baby will be examined, weighed and possibly measured and given a band with your name on it. The midwife will then help you to wash and freshen up. Then you should have some time alone with your baby and your partner, just to be together quietly and meet your new baby properly. If you find this doesn’t happen and you would like some time alone, ask for it.

A paediatrician may check your baby straight after delivery.

If you’re breastfeeding, let your baby suckle as soon after birth as possible. Babies do suck this soon, although maybe just for a short time, or they may just like to feel the nipple in the mouth. It helps with breastfeeding later on and it also helps your womb to contract.  

 Information provided by Health Promotion England