Worry about abnormality

Everyone worries at some time that there may be something wrong with their baby. Some people find that talking openly about their fears helps them to cope. Others prefer not to dwell on the possibility of something being wrong.

Some women continue to worry because they are convinced that if something does go wrong it will be their fault. While you can increase your baby’s chances of being born healthy by following the advice outlined in the section on healthy living you cannot cut out the risk entirely. There are certain problems which cannot be prevented, either because the causes are not known or because they are beyond anyone’s control.    

It may reassure you to know that 97% of babies born in the UK are normal, although some of these may have birthmarks or some other small variations. A further 1% of babies will be born with abnormalities that can be partly or completely corrected. About 2%, however, will suffer from some more severe disability. Regular antenatal care and careful observation during labour help so that action can be taken if necessary.   

If you are particularly concerned, perhaps because someone in your family has a disability, or because someone you know has had a difficult birth, or even if you just feel very anxious, talk to your doctor or midwife as soon as possible.      

They may be able to reassure you or offer you helpful information about tests which can be done in pregnancy.

Information provided by Health Promotion England.